Are there any other crazy mom's out there??? My mom has a new "daughter"?

So ever since i quit my hobby (something she was making me do for a while but i finnaly quit) my mom has been really close with a family friend, this girl who is around 25... she favours her SO much!!! She will actually buy her stuff and take her where she needs to go cuz the girl doesn't have the car. That girl does the same hobby i quit thats how we know her. not only that but she is a huge s.l.u.t. and my mom is okay with that. This girl dresses the way my mom wants me to dress: Very open and "sexy". My mom can't accept the fact that I don't like dressing that way so we always argue about what i wear. Also, for example today we were supposed to go buy me a hat and wax my eyebrows (I'm going to a ski resort for new years, so its not for fun i actually need a hat) BUT... first she had to go with that girl to the mall so she could buy herself boots (I wouldn't be surprised if my mom bought it for her) so basically she spent all day with her and now we aren't going anywhere...

Are there any other crazy mom's out there??? My mom has a new "daughter"?
I'm sorry to hear this. I, too, was a disappointment to my mom.





But really, don't take this too harshly. Your mom is finding someone with whom she gets along and who has the same interests. It sounds like it's just recent and this is the flush of a new friendship.





You have every right to dress conservatively if you so desire, and you may just have to understand that your mother and you will not get along. It was hard lesson for me, but I learned not to wait for or expect approval.





In the meantime, it also sounds like you're jealous-- you mom might have been trying to get you to do that hobby (Whatever it is, you haven't said but that's not important) because she wanted to find a common ground with you. So find another one. And tell her that you miss her, and even though you don't always get along that you wish that you could.





Been there, done that-- sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. In one way, it will make the separation when you move away or to college easier.





God bless.
Reply:Have you tried talking with your mother about the way she is making you feel? She needs to know that you feel like you are being replaced by this other girl.
Reply:Well, your mom is feeling like you're ditching her for your boyfriend. And the 25 year old who seemingly "replaced" you, she is irrelevant. Your mom can hang out and buy things for whoever she wants, even if you say that the 25 year old is a "big slut". Grow up and think outside the box because calling the "new daughter" a big slut (no matter how much of a "slut" she is) just because you and your mom aren't getting along is just immature.





In the meantime, tell your mom that you can dress any way you want. If your mom wants you to dress like a whore then she can do that for herself.





I think you guys should talk EEEEEEVERYTHING out... and see where it goes from there.
Reply:Try not to show any how you feel in front of your mum or the other girl, thats what they want - to make you jeleous.


Your mum sounds like a bit of a control freak and because you stood up to her, she moved on to control, save, lead in the right direction, help - how ever she see's it.


Don't panic to much, this girl will eventually get jack of it too and stand up to your mum.




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